Sunday, March 22, 2009

Things that I noticed...

hmm...I've few questions would like to ask even though me myself have my own answer already...i guess i will have two version of answers from you guys...well...let's start~~

1. Normally when a guy talk with a girl, does it mean that the guy is flirting with the girl?

2. How to classify the girl whether she is desperate or so called "cheap"?

3. Who should be the one to take a move, guy or girl?

4. Will you care what people think about you for what you've done?

5. Do you mind if 9 out of 10 peoples are disagree with your decision? Will you just give up or just carry on with what you think is right and feel happy with?

6. Will a guy hugged and kissed a girl if he don't love her?

3 comments:

  1. 1. NO... talk only mar. but must see the way he talk. if he act sampat, then means he is flirting.

    2. wow. cheap girls... hmm, if they go sleeping around. desperate girls are girls that wish to have bf but dun have.

    3. wow. modern world. both also can. but preferably boys la. some girls are *paiseh*

    4. a little. we always live under the eyes of people although we keep saying WE DONT CARE..but actually when we get pissed coz ppl say things about us..... we ACTUALLY CARE!

    5. wow. if 9 out of 10 disagree, u have to think back about your decision. like..why so many ppl disagree...? WHY WHY WHY? u need to reconsider. if u stil think ur rite, then lantak lah. buat apa yang u suka.

    6. wow. if he is pervert, then he don't. if he is a sampat fella, he don't. if he is some playboy, then he don't. So u have to see for yourself is this guy sampat, pervert, or playboy. if not, then he loves u.

    just my 2 cents. might not be right. weeee~~~

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  2. Hmmm,i always just follow my heart haha although there's a Malay saying "ikut hati mati".....
    Actually all your Qs dont really have standard,apply-to-all answers,has to depend on how well you know that guy in Q also =)

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  3. 1. talk and flirting are actually very different. normally guys who flirt has hidden intention but not all guys are like that. i certainly only flirt with those i am very close with or those i have 'click' with provided i have know them for quite some time.

    if he just bump into random girls and flirt, most probably he has hidden intention.

    2.my definition of 'cheap' gals are those that go around and sleep with guys. desperate gals are those that just want to get a bf for the sake of having a bf.

    3. i believe this Q doesnt have a right answer. i believe it is okay for gals to make the first move provided she is quite sure that the boy has some feelings for her. if not, a gal might be labeled as 'cheap' and the boy might just go big mouth everywhere about his proud achievement. i know there are boys that behave that way.

    4. if you think you are right and you done nothing wrong, no one should or has the right to judge you. of course we care about what people said about us but just don't let it affect you life. we don't have control over their mouth.

    5. this is a little tough. although we dislike people to disagree with our decision but sometimes it is best to really reflect on our decision especially when majority of people that do care about you try to change your mind. i still do believe some things are meant to be learn through the hard way. just remember that you don't blame everyone if you regretted your decision down the way. you will have to live with the consequences.well, that is life.

    6. yes. that is lust.

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